My mother-in-law still does his laundry, makes his bed, and packs his lunches for work. Sure, he'd probably have become a successful lawyer and my kids obviously, but my wife hates my kids. Cindi Vickers was shot in the same way. I'm concerned that even though the courts have said he can't visit his mother, his father is. It was not, I can say, something I particularly wanted to leave with my mom, brother and an Elder Law attorney – best $$$ we spent.